Thinking on the line of lorretta- “it’s time to make some plans for the future and it’s time to be happy.”
Every time that I have experienced a major change in my life…. I devote myself time to figure out.
” What different i would do to make it better in future and also what i did wrong during the course of that particular experience”
I am that kind of a person who always tell their mind, that there will always be different perspectives and views towards the same incident/ scenario
I never would like to focus on what the other person did wrong ….rather: on the contrary, I must figure out ‘ What i did wrong (if i could fix it) and not to commit the same again in future ( if and when such a situation comes) along with that i should be doing to make it better!’
Looking at where i am in life at the moment
I have lost the man i truly love
living away from my own daughter….
This one question keeps crawling up at the back of my mind->
-Did i do something wrong?
-What will n should i do different?
-Am i still on the right track?
-Why am i at where i am right now?
When it comes to being a mother…. i feel that the same happens with around 90 percent of all the mothers on this globe-
The problem with us-> is making sure everyone else are OK and comfortable while neglecting/giving a secondary preference to our own individual needs and wants.
One thing that i always complain about(to myself) is….
When can i start to take care of my needs as well?
So… When i look at where i am at right now, another question arises- “Am i taking enough care of my needs yet?”
As for the answer( realization)
It took me a while to find the answer to myself, and that is….
what and where i’m right now…is primarily because I’ve finally decided to spend and invest more time to myself.
I am on the right track in reference to what is in my mind.
But one aspect which was a blunder committed by me was( and is)-> ceasing to expand my knowledge, values, business, importance of developing relationships! Thereby limiting the growth of actual interactive life around me.
I spend too much time on one thing at a given point in time and miss out the other stuff which also have important in an individual’s life.
Now that I have realized all of there,, I have tried to get back on track of gaining a balance in my own life!!
And that’s precisely why i am where i am now…
I do have to admit…I actually feel that i have considerably progressed in that regard!
But my only regret which keeps haunting me is that….I shouldn’t have stopped paying attention to everything else that were significantly important in my life.
At the end of every week… I review on what has transpired and think of what i ought to/would ideally have /should have done and tweak-adjust them accordingly in minor increments every week! -> thereby moving towards my goal->of having a balanced life along with continuing to learn and adding more meaningful value to my life.
This is my experiment at my point in life…..” what will you do? Thoughts?